Christmas 2014

Trips home around the holidays are always a bit hectic and busy, trying to squeeze everything in and see everyone and do all the things we want/need to do. This trip was no different - which means this post is going to be LONG. With a million pictures. I'll try to make it as concise as possible, but that's not my strong point, so begin if you dare :)

It conveniently started with Tanner's work party. We were going to get our own hotel since we were flying out of Minot really early Saturday the 13th. But his work party was on the 12th and they always get us a hotel, so we scored!

 Lovely sunset from the hotel, that Harvey also enjoyed. He also was loving the bathroom and learning how toilet paper rolls work.

He was loving giving "the baby" kisses too. We dropped him off at someone from the church that has watched him before and we went to the work party. They had a photo booth but Tanner didn't want to do it with me. This is the only picture I took from the evening.

My tag was the only one they got right. Both our name stickers were spelled wrong too. Oops. Only our 3rd Christmas party :) Tanner didn't win anything this year, but someone that works with Tanner, who happens to weigh probably over 400lbs, won the grand prize - a stand up paddle board. We all, including him, got a big laugh out of that.

Our flight left at 7:30 so it was an early morning. Harv was being really social with this little girl that was sitting in the airport by us.

We were sitting across from a couple that left their 14 month old boy home for a quick trip to Chicago and a football game. Apparently it was the mom's first time away from him and her sitting by us made her break down into tears. Kind of cute, sad and funny, all in one.
We had some big delays initially in Minot. It scared me because I really didn't want to miss our connecting flight in Minneapolis and it just seems like I ALWAYS have issues when I fly. Luckily there was an AMAZING sunrise we watched while waiting to see if we were even going to be able to take off. And extra luckily, we were.

Harvey did awesome on both flights. The rest of our journey was uneventful and then my parents picked us up from the airport. Tanner thought it was pretty funny (and it was) that ski bag after ski bag was being unloaded on the baggage area, and then they dumped out his golf bag :) He had high hopes for being able to golf on his birthday for the first time ever.

 

It was my mom's birthday that day. We ended up going out to lunch at In and Out and then just hung out at home and played some games and made my mom dinner, etc.

Ben and Julie came over and Harv got reintroduced to his cousins. It was so much fun seeing him and Vienna play together. One baby is cute, but two babies the same age is extra cute ;) He was kind of sick and a little grumpy - and overwhelmed by a lot of somewhat unfamiliar people - although I really think all the facetiming we have done helped him be way more comfortable with our family.

One thing he was NOT comfortable with was Jez - my parents chihuahua. Oh my gosh. I kind of regret not getting a picture or video of this because it was so crazy. He was TERRIFIED of that dog. Every time he saw her he would start shaking and screaming a scream I had never heard from him before. It was really sad actually. And then if she went out of the room, you could tell he was just unsettled about her not being there because who knew when she might appear again. The strangest part of it all was the next morning he woke up and was as friendly as he always is with dogs and never had a problem with her again. ???

The next day my whole family came down and we had a birthday party for all the December birthdays - me, my mom, my sister and Tanner.

This is them looking weird at my dad while we all sang "Happy Birthday" the special Stoddard way.

Monday Tanner took Harv to lunch with his brother and I went and played racquetball with my dad. Way fun. He still always beats me. That afternoon we got family pictures taken, which I was pretty excited about. We have a few more edited pics coming our way, so look forward to a future blog with those :)

Eating grapes :)

Loving bath time with Papa Chris

Tuesday and Wednesday we spent with Tanner's family. Tuesday we got pedicure's with Nat. Tanner had never had one but was surprisingly willing to try it out. He is DEFINITELY a fan now :) I didn't have anything to do with Harvey and so he had to come with and that took a little of the relaxation out of it but it was still way fun and very glorious! 

 

We ate Kneaders for lunch, and then Nat's fam came down that night with the kiddos and we had pizza and just played and reconnected.

Wednesday was Tanner's birthday and we started it at a yummy breakfast place in Bountiful with his brother Carson. Sun Shine Cafe. Best blueberry pancakes I've ever had. Then he fished what he wished and the weather was perfect for a round of golf. Harv and I walked the front 9 with him and Carson.

 

That night we met all his family minus the Smithfield crew at Rio Grand - a family favorite. It was super fun and delicious. Tanner had introduced Harvey to his dad's train around the tree already, and that restaurant has a train that goes around the ceiling and Harvey kept watching it and turning to find it whenever we said "where's the train?". 

Birthday boy!!

Harv was a fan of Tanner's dad and brothers.

Couple random pics from Tanner's parents house...

Randomly one day, he decided he could climb stairs, even though he's never been around them. And he climbed to the very top - maybe 15 stairs. Silly kid.

I think Thursday was back at my parents. We met my mom and Heather and Kathryn for lunch. Harv liked my dads kale.

We saw where my mom worked and she showed us all off to her coworkers. She has a sweet office and a great view. It was cool to see it!

After that we got Tanner's birthday/Christmas present - a suit that he's been wanting a long time. That night my cousin Kelsey came over to watch Harv and my mom and Dad and I went to A Kurt Bestor Christmas at Abravanel Hall. It was REALLY good. Tanner used to go all the time when he was growing up, and my parents had maybe been once before, but it was my first time and it was very enjoyable - except for the fact that I was feeling sooo sick (had been since the night of Tanner's birthday). I blamed Harvey :)  But who knows. All I know is that I was probably more sick than I have ever been, or at least in a while, just about the whole vacation. That part was lame but I tried not to let it ruin it. 

Friday we went to the aquarium with Ben and Julie and Kathryn and Heather and my friend Brooke and her son, Garrett. 

Waiting in the car

 

 

 

Harvey loves ANY type of steering wheel!

 

 

Just some random pics after the aquarium. 

Lunch at Pei Wei's

 

Vienna wanted nothing to do with me the whole trip but she LOVED Tanner! So cute.

The next day was my birthday. We went to Bruge's Waffles in Sugarhouse. No one had ever been there and that is a sad, sad thing, because it was AMAZING. Waffles with ice cream and strawberries for breakfast??? Yes PLEASE. And I didn't even feel guilty about it one bit since it was my birthday and all. The place was legit too. A guy with a Belgian accent was running the place and giving us the scoop on everything. I want more of all of it right now!

And a waffle stuffed with chocolate bars topped with creme fraiche. Hello.

My friend Kristen and her husband and their youngest joined us as well as the rest of my family minus Heather and Shane. It was a great birthday start!

A couple weeks before we went home, I decided that it would be fun to have a family party on my birthday. I have missed so much getting together with all my aunts and uncles and cousins. A good ol' fashioned Wilding party hasn't happened for a long time and if it has, I haven't been around. So I sent out a hypothetical text to see if people could/wanted to. And it was met with astounding success. The only problem was, unbeknownst to me, Tanner had already planned and made reservations for a surprise birthday party for me. That one ended up getting cancelled and I felt REALLY bad. Apparently you aren't supposed to plan your own birthday??!? Oops. BUT - despite that - I do have to say, that the night made my heart happy. So many of my cousins and aunts and one of my favorite uncles ever came and I haven't seen so many of them for a really long time. It brought back so many warm, fuzzy, happy memories of growing up around them and all the parties we've had through the years. Gosh. It was awesome. Too bad Harvey had refused to nap all day so he was super grumpy and went to bed WAY early so people didn't get to see him much or at his most awesome self. Oh well. 

Sunday was Tanner's mom's side of the family party - the Burningham Christmas party. It was a little different this year with a kid. I didn't get to participate in the family bingo game much. And they didn't play their tradition LCR game. But it was fun to see people and the food was good :) The first pictures are from pre-partying at Mimi and Papa's.

Lovin' the train!

FINALLY getting to see Aunt Carrie

I love this picture so much.

Monday and Tuesday was more Niederhauser time. We spent some time up in Mountain Green Monday with Nat while Major got to go birthday shopping with Mimi and Papa. We hit up Dickey's for dinner that night. Tuesday everyone but the Smithfield crew again went on the Polar Express (Heber Creeper). It was maybe worth doing once, but definitely not worth what they charge. And Harvey was a little difficult to keep entertained the whole 90 minute journey. But it was fun being with everyone and it was a beautiful day!

He's a Niederhauser...

 

Monday and Tuesday evening we got Clare to play and learn a few new card games - which was awesome. He actually liked them (he's not usually a big game, esp card game fan). So we stayed up late playing games with Tanner's parents which I always just love. Wednesday was Christmas Eve and we were going to spend the morning and day with my fam to do Christmas. We had a big lunch and did our family gift exchange and then Christmas from my parents. This was by far Harvey's favorite present. He opened it first and go so excited about it. When we took it away to have him open his other presents, he got mad and tried to go after it. So we moved it where he couldn't see it but that didn't help either. He had a one track mind. And he was obsessed with it the rest of the trip.

Love this picture.

My mom made me that AWESOME tree skirt and Tanner got a "'just my size gift card :)

 All of Tanner's family was getting together that night for the Niederhauser Christmas so we had to leave my family's a little prematurely so we wouldn't have to miss out on that. Never enough time!

Christmas jammies from Mimi and Papa

 We did the traditional Niederhauser greatest hits song guessing game. We picked our Steinbach ornaments and did the sibling gift exchange. We were planning on getting up early and visiting the nieces and nephews on Christmas, so we did our gifts that night too. Tanner didn't take any pictures of me, but I got a cool kid friendly iPad case called a Speck and an AMAZINGLY nice set of knives, which I really am so dang excited about. I love kitchen stuff and I've been needing new knives for awhile. I can't wait to start chopping like crazy with them. Tanner got his suit but he got to open a few small gifts - some nice wool socks, a gun holster and some shaving soap he loves :)

First stop Christmas morning was Mtn Green. Nat made us breakfast and Tanner helped with the customary lego sets. We saw all of Emery's Frozen gear and Mitt made Harvey laugh like crazy pushing him around on Dusty.

I know this is blurry, but it's just too precious not to share and everyone was moving too fast to get a good one.

That is one happy boy :)

Next stop was Smithfield. A little more of the same. Playing with new toys and enjoying family time. They got a hot tub as their family gift so Harvey and I got to enjoy that a little too.

 Carrie made a yummy lunch and Harv and I took a lovely nap together on the couch. It was a really nice and beautifully snowy Christmas day. The evening was pretty mellow. The next day I got to go to breakfast (same Bountiful place, same blueberry pancakes) with 3 of my best high school girl friends that I haven't seen forever. It was AWESOME catching up with them. Then Tanner and Harv and I made a run to Salt Lake to pick up his suit and run a few more errands. I also got to meet up with a best friend from college for a short bit who I never see either. I'm retarded and didn't take pics of any of that. Oops. The rest of the day was just packing and organizing and cleaning since our flight was leaving at 6 the next morning. My parents came up to say goodbye and Preston and Nat and Carson and Nat were there and we all ate dinner and hung out for a little bit too. Saying goodbye is lame. And sad. But it was an awesome vacation and an uneventful trip home, which was nice. Merry Christmas!

10 months

It's that time of month again. Crazy. Only 2 more months of monthly documenting and then we'll have a one year old. Man oh man. As much as I want time to stand still right now (Harvey is SO much fun), I still am excited to hear his first words and see what he's going to start getting obsessed with and all sorts of things that are down the road.
He hasn't gotten a ton closer to walking like I thought he would this last month. He won't even stand unassisted by himself. Although he did let go of my hands to go to Tanner - it was more like a fall into him rather than a step, but still - he at least let go :) He's cruising along furniture like crazy and is pretty stable and has gotten quite quick with his hands and knees crawling. He hardly ever army crawls anymore. He's all over the place and doing that normal baby thing of getting into everything he can. Pulling open drawers and emptying them and wanting to knock stuff over and pull books off the shelf.

He does really love his book shelf. Our routine lately has been him waking up early (usually well before 7), me being super tired, and then me laying on his floor while he crawls around with his toys and looks at books forever. I think he's more interested in flipping the pages around than actually absorbing images into his genius brain :) He really likes his baby einstein books and Peek a Who right now. Oh and his farm animal book that makes sounds. He hasn't figured out how to push the buttons himself yet though.
I think we've made some progress in the sleep department, but then again, we had some serious set backs. I think he's working on a LOT of new teeth. One more has popped through so that makes 9. It's been awhile since he gotten any. He had diarrhea for a few days and there was a 5 day stretch where he did not eat one morsel of solid food. He seems to be better that way. His gums are all way swollen and look like they are on the verge of popping, so hopefully they do soon and he really starts officially feeling better.

This was the aftermath of this last picture...

I think he looks like Jack Nicholas junior. He obviously has enough hair to get some good disheveled bed head!
There was one day this last month that was almost 40 degrees (thus December has been ten times warmer than last year!) so we made a break for the park. First time the dogs had been out in awhile! Oops!

 This little guy loves his puppies. I love watching him crawl around or on them, play tug of war with Gus or even an infant moderation of fetch. He actually discovered he could crawl into the kennels this month too, which was a funny day.

 

 

 

Sorry, that's a lot of pictures of the same thing. But it was just all so cute!
This month he has learned more to stack blocks. He's gotten to 3. And he can stack the ring tower and this other shape/peg stacker thing (all but the heart shape). He really likes those games and is entertained by them for a good amount of time.

He tried pomegranate for the first time. That was one of the only things I got him to eat during his no food phase. My dad was pretty proud. Those are like his favorite!
He still is a major water baby. Loves the bath and the pool. We had a fun family outing to the rec center a few weeks ago. He loved it and we love that he loves it.

Tanner took him once with our friends the Mabeu's while I was working and he sent me this picture. One of my favs of all time. Tanner said that when he had him on his stomach he'd kick his feet and move his arms all around. And as soon as he put him on his back he'd do this. Every time. Hilarious.

He got up close and personal to the shower the other day and was enjoying getting soaked apparently.

I went visiting teaching to a friend that has a baby just one month younger than him. I should have taken better pictures of them playing, because that's the first time he has with someone his own age. It was really cute. They were playing by themselves in his room for awhile (when I snapped this pic) and then crawled out together, all synchronized it seemed. I loved it. I want more play dates with kids his age. I can't wait to take him home to cousins and stuff this week!

This is how gangsters eat tomato soup I guess.

Tanner took him to our wards Christmas party. I was working - of course. Tanner played an inn keeper during their acting out of the Christmas story. Emily was nice enough to take this picture of my boys. Love it.

And here's one last one for good measure. Harv getting into the Christmas spirit.

Gosh we love this kid so much. Can't stand it :)

Farewell

One of our favorite family's/friend's we have made up here, the Merkley's (many posts involving or including them) got a new job in Houston and are busting out of the Bakken soon. Too soon. They thought it would have happened a lot sooner this year, but it didn't. And then I just kept enjoying their presence and thinking they would never leave. A couple weeks ago, Emily told me they got the new job and were going to be moving in like a month from that time. Crazy! So we had to squeeze in one final meal together, since we were leaving to Utah and they were going to be gone when we would get back.

Such a great family. Emily is a great person and I really learned a lot from her about selfless service and friendship. Things I hope I can remember and incorporate as well as she does. She has some super cute and really funny boys. I'm sad Harvey won't get to become better buddies with Declan.

Williston will most definitely not be the same without them. I really am going to miss them, but hope they find all manner of success and happiness in a much warmer Houston!

Gus and Rozzi

I figured it was time to do a little update of the dogs. They kind of get the back burner to Harvey. And I have to admit that I've been struggling a little with them the last little bit. Actually the last couple of weeks have been much better. Guess it's a good time to blog :)

I vaguely remember how hard Rozzi was as a puppy, but obviously not enough to stop us from getting another puppy. But now I am reminded of how hard puppies are. Especially with a little baby. I've sworn to myself that we will NEVER get a puppy again, but I don't know if I believe it. It's probably like a kid. You forget all the super hard stuff about a baby and keep having more, right? My complaints are just those of normal puppiness, really. He has chewed on things. He still has accidents (although the last 2 weeks, maybe why they have been so good, he has been AWESOME). Those accidents would randomly come immediately after vacuuming and mopping it would seem. And tracking in mud and leaves and dirt. And the house being messy and the hair. And feeling bad I'm not paying as much attention to them as I should and getting annoyed with them when they look for attention. I've almost lost it a few times. Just like a few minutes ago as I was watching Harvey sleep, I thought to myself that all the hard parts of a kid are above and beyond worth it for those precious moments and I guess the same is true for us with our dogs. We do have precious moments with them too, and as you will see in upcoming posts, Harvey LOVES the dogs and Gus and Rozzi are SO incredibly good with him.

He pulls stuff out of Gus' mouth and puts stuff in it and plays tug of war and it is fascinating to me that Gus just has the sense to be extra gentle with him. There have not even been any close calls with him biting Harvey. (Him getting stepped on is a different story). I am really happy Harvey gets to be around dogs and isn't afraid of them and will love animals. And it still really is a lot of fun seeing the two dogs together. They have become good buds and I think that is just great. It still is funny how uncannily the roles have changed from puppy Rozzi and Samson to puppy Gus and Rozzi.

 

??? Gus is crazy!

My favorite!